Though it's already very late, still insist to write my 2009 resolution on the first day of 2009.
1. Live and make people around me having a Happy Life
2. Finish my MBA (yeah, no more projects/homework tho I'll miss the class)
3. Find my next step in my career (I need some change)
4. Stay in shape (no weight gaining)
5. Spend more time with family esp. my dad and my grandma
6. Be a better Christian (keep praying and hope god will hear my voice, especially my prays for people around me)
7. Do something for the society (let's see if the plan will work out)
8. Understand myself more and know what I want/dun want & need/dun need in my life
9. Be more healthy
10. Europe Trip
No matter how much challenge I may see and how many ups and downs I need to survivein the coming year, when I read this message again, I will be able to give myself an answer.
2008年12月31日 星期三
2008年12月22日 星期一
Lost and Found
Had a really good baptism ceremony yesterday, with friends came(tho guess some of them were feeling bored) but really feel grateful about that.
Dunno why, I had a feeling that I lost my concealer in the washroom and I end up spent over 1 hour looking for it (but I never think I should look in the drawer coz I had gut feeling that I brought it along with me in the afternoon) but can't find it. Was getting panic and thinking about replacement and almost try it on my face then I realize that it has been sitting quietly in my drawer all the time. The whole story about losing it wasn't true............guess we did a lot of things in our life like this e.g our purpose of life, our loved ones, personal belief. When we think it has been lost, actually it was sitting there quietly and never move an inch.
Guess should spend a quiet evening this year to leave some time to rest and purify my mind......
Dunno why, I had a feeling that I lost my concealer in the washroom and I end up spent over 1 hour looking for it (but I never think I should look in the drawer coz I had gut feeling that I brought it along with me in the afternoon) but can't find it. Was getting panic and thinking about replacement and almost try it on my face then I realize that it has been sitting quietly in my drawer all the time. The whole story about losing it wasn't true............guess we did a lot of things in our life like this e.g our purpose of life, our loved ones, personal belief. When we think it has been lost, actually it was sitting there quietly and never move an inch.
Guess should spend a quiet evening this year to leave some time to rest and purify my mind......
2008年12月11日 星期四
2008年12月7日 星期日
Worth sharing with all ladies.....
If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behaviour. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends". A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. Don't settle.
If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is Don't stay because you think "it will get better". You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better. The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
You cannot change a man's behavior.* Change comes from within.
Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...Even if he has more education or in a better job.
Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are. Never borrow someone else's man.
If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
All men are NOT dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the bending...
Compromise is two way street. (haha, I like this)
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you... A relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals... Look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.
Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.
Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and you're always readily available to him - he takes it for granted
Scared of being alone is what makes a lot of women stay in relationships
that are abusive or hurtful: Dr. Phill
You should know that:
You're the best thing that could ever happen to anyone and if a man mistreats you, he'll miss out on a good thing. If he was attracted to you in the 1st place, just know that he's not the only one.
They're all watching you, so you have a lot of choices. Make the right one.
Ladies take care of your own hearts....
Share this with other women and men (just so they know)...
You'll make someone smile, another rethink her choices, and another woman prepare. (I hope so~)
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behaviour. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends". A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. Don't settle.
If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is Don't stay because you think "it will get better". You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better. The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
You cannot change a man's behavior.* Change comes from within.
Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...Even if he has more education or in a better job.
Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are. Never borrow someone else's man.
If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
All men are NOT dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the bending...
Compromise is two way street. (haha, I like this)
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you... A relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals... Look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.
Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.
Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and you're always readily available to him - he takes it for granted
Scared of being alone is what makes a lot of women stay in relationships
that are abusive or hurtful: Dr. Phill
You should know that:
You're the best thing that could ever happen to anyone and if a man mistreats you, he'll miss out on a good thing. If he was attracted to you in the 1st place, just know that he's not the only one.
They're all watching you, so you have a lot of choices. Make the right one.
Ladies take care of your own hearts....
Share this with other women and men (just so they know)...
You'll make someone smile, another rethink her choices, and another woman prepare. (I hope so~)
2008年12月4日 星期四
Brand New Start
Hope to start a new blog to get rid of some annoying "gossip gal" who keep udpating my old blog of course just to bring them new gossip topic. Anyway, starting a new blog is jsut to leave me a place to share my true feeling with my friends. Welcome buddies.........
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